When Emmi Sorokin worked in IT, it was all she could do not to forcibly make over her nerdy colleagues. She knew they could look, and feel, so much more confident, if they only knew how. In this men-friendly episode, the author of The Business Casual Survival Guide gives you dudes some strategies for stepping things up a notch—and getting more respect (and more dates) in the process. Plus: Why even if you work from home, you gotta get dressed, unless you only want to do pajama-level work.